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    So, I was going to stage from talking to this guy, then another guy called me over. I talked to him for a sec, told him I had to go onstage, but said I could skip it for a VIP. He bought it, and took me to the VIP for 1 hour. HIs friends were talking to girls, so he got them to take the girls in for an hour too. SO then after the hour he wanted to upgrade to the most expensive room. He told his friends where he was going, and the other girls were saying, "Oh where are you going?" We go into expensive room, he gives card to waitress, I say I am going to bathroom, I come down and the other girls are in said room (the only really expensive one avialable inthe house) and are trying to sell it to their guys. My guy is like "WTF?", so I am like, Oh, I just wanted to be more private in here...whatever. He was not pleased, but was the only one who had paid.

    So he kicks them out. No one knows I said anything, I just sat on the couch and shut my mouth. One of the other girls says "Oh thanks" or smething. I say nothing. We do a hlaf hour, (we have already done an hour), then we go back to cheaper room and do another half. I made the most money I have ever made in one night...BY A LOT. He tipped me out a shitload in addition to said money I have made.

    But these girls want to jump me cause they are pissed I didn't support them. I don't know them, don't even know their names. But the lights came on, I went to dressing room, and this girl is yelling at me about the money I made her lose. The manager is in there, she wants to come after me, but the other girls held her back. I was really scared.

    I seriously did nothing bitchy. In fact, the guys wanted to dump the girls, but the girls were holding on fordear life. I brought over a "friend" before they got started (cause my guy asked me to) but they went with the girls that were bugging them. In the end, they did nothing for me...AND the guy I was with paid for them to stay in cheaper room while we were in more expensive.

    So I told the manager I was not coming in tomorrow, he told me not to worry, that nothing would happen, and he needs me to come in. But I am scared and i don't want to go in.

    This is the first time this has happened to me when I have no one supporting me. If you work at my club, I would appreciate advice. I think I am going to get fined if I don't go in tomorrow, but I am scared. Tonight would have been a good Friday AND Saturday, so I can afford ot take it off. But I don't want to be a weak bitch either.

    What to do? Advice and support is really appreciated.
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    pepper spray? that sounds scary. I have danced at 2 clubs and all have been verry friendly and every one loved me and hugged me when i left to go back to iowa.
    all i could say is stay away and have the bouncer walk you to the car and keep pepper spray on you at all times.

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    HA! that's a joke that the manager said nothing will happen to you. not to scare you or anything, but remember my car? a girl hit my car in the parking lot on purpose and the managers wouldnt do shit! no i have never seen a physical fight there but i would seriously be careful. i'm curious as to who it was.. can you pm me? if i know who it is i might be able to help more. be careful!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnie View Post
    I made the most money I have ever made in one night...BY A LOT. He tipped me out a shitload in addition to said money I have made.
    You crossed over to the high roller side for a short while. It's really where you want to be. This guy liked you a lot, and was even willing to boot the other girls and guys out of the high-end CR to be alone with you. He knew he was the only guy paying and was not going to put up with a crowd.

    Even though this is not my style by a million miles -- there is no chance I would have ever kicked them out -- you did absolutely nothing wrong. The girls beating up on you just couldn't close the sale with their guys and they decided you were a convenient scapegoat. From your description, there was no cock-blocking going on at all. So chalk it all up to old-fashioned jealousy.

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    ^^^Thanks TOO!

    I am not entirely innocent...I mean, I worked this guy to get him in the expensive room, and when the other girls were in there I was pissed. He asked me what thefuck was going on, as he was the bank roll for the night, and I jsut said I didn't know...I said I had just wanted to be alone with him.

    Bottom line is, he was paying for everything, and I didn't want him to spend $1500 on a half hour room that should have been $500 when these girls just showed up out of left field trying to hustle the guy I had been with.

    In addiition, his friend was trying to get rid of one of the girls, but he couldn't do it in a non asshole way cause she was being a pain. I have done that before, I was a top earner at my old club, so I know the deal on a slow night. But showing up in a room you weren't invited to and expecting a girl who outsold you without your help to help you make a sale is not going to happen...no matter how big and bad you think you are.

    All in all, I know I sold a room just cause I was friendly to this guy, and he tipped me out awesome even though he wanted more than I provide (extras)....he was SOOOOO nice about it, I was fucking shocked, the first time ever I have upgraded and downgraded again due to lack of extras (I NEVER promise them in my sales).

    Hope that was clear. i am drinking to calm myself down and stay positive...I REALLY appreciate all your advice. I am at a delicate point in my life where I can snap into a depressive mode or crying spell over silly shit cause I am so intimidated and stressed about school, but I am so happy with my job. I don't want to fuck it up cause I need the outlet, but I am willing to be an untalkitive workaholic if it just keeps me going.
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    I would go (never back down) but get a ride or something so your car's not in the parking lot to get fucked with.



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    Girl if you dont take yo butt to work and dont worry about them other chicks.........#1 I dont care how scared you are of anybody you never let them know because if the fiqure out that you are scared they are really going to F*** with you.( excuse my french) #2 If it come down to it and somebody trys to do something to you take off one of them hard ass shoes and hit they ass one good time in the head and I bet you they will back up...lmao #3 like stated before pepper spray.Thats just me ..... I cant see nobody punking me or trying to jump me over some bull. We dont go to work for that drama. People need to get it together

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    Oh I have had this happen to me a few weeks ago. I work in a $10 no VIP club located in a bum fuck town. So when I come in and clean out the house (typically around $500) you bet I am the talk of the town. There is so much cattiness in my club it drives me insane.



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    I wouldnt worry TOO much. Watch your back, but dont stay away because of it. Most of these girls are all talk and you know it...wasnt there a time when you were afraid of exactly this at our club too? Nothing happened right?
    Girls like to spout off and act tough..and they'll do it more if they think they are getting to you. Make sure you are walked out every night,lock your shit up in the dressing room and make your money. Ignore them

    Or do you need me to come up there and kick some hood rat butt for you?? I love Baltimore...give me a reason to come up there...havent been to the inner harbor aquarium in years!!!

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    Sounds like they got stars in their eyes when they saw what money they *could* have made. It didn't pan out for them, and they need someone to blame it on. You didn't do anything wrong.

    Tomorrow is another night. For you and for them. It will blow over soon enough. Once they have another good night, they'll forget all about this. Put them on ignore mode until then.
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    oh man, a few weeks ago a african american girl (who is really ghetto, and carries a fucking gun with her) had her credit cards stolen, and threatened to kill all the white girls in my club. WTF!

    i didn't put up with anything. i went to a manager and told them, that if they didn't fire her, i was leaving. they asked why, so i told them. they tried to brush it off, the same way your manager did. i was persistent with it, and she got canned.

    they allowed her to come back to work as long as she behaves, and you know what, she doesn't even TALK anymore... and it's kind of refreshing to not have her ghetto blabber in my face all the time.

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    ^ carries.. a.. gun.. to work?! and that's allowed?

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    ^ in her car, yes. from what i understand as long as you have a permit it's okay... although i don't know if she's got the permit.

    i highly doubt it.

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    I agree, go back, but have someone drive you or take a cab. Don't hang out in the dressing room so they can't get you alone and try to leave early if that's possible so you're not there at the end of the night. Other than that, just keep your eyes open.

    If someone starts yelling at you again, just ignore them and walk away. Don't even try to defend yourself, it'll just get ugly.

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    stick to yourself. you didn't have them lose out on money, in fact, if you didnt have said friend come over, they wouldn't have even been in the room to begin with. the fact they wanted to upsell and were pushy got them no $$, they should have known their boundaries and worked the dudes slowly. the girl is an immature bitch. mgmt already knows she wants to hurt you, so, tell him you are uncomfortable and if it escaltes you are going to get police involved. you did nothing wrong. those girls arent your friends, never feel obligated to help someone get money-- its work. you know that, they dont

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    ^ i'm sorry to keep jumping in but when i got the police involved with shit that happened to me, the manager who was there the night this happened to sunnie lied to the police. you guys dont understand how whacked out this place is.

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    Keep your clothes and stuff in a safe place. It's doubtful that they'll jump you, but they probably will try to sabotage you. I once had cigarette holes burned in my clothes. If you have a locker, don't just lock it. Block the vents by taping up cardboard or something.

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    Go back to work ! You sound like a money maker and broke bitches hate that !
    I'm not sur ehow your club is but, you might want to look into working in a high end club. Also let your manager know that you expect him to have your back at all times. If not then you're not going to work there. Period !
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    Oh, also ask the manager if you can keep your stuff in his office. That will reduce the chances of them sabotaging your stuff. Also, if you're paranoid about your car, then get a friend to drop you off or take a cab. Also, stay out on the floor and around others so they have less chances of catching you alone. Make sure that they have no way of sabotaging you.

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    fuck having a manager file a report or talk to police, have sunnie file it herself. this way if she does get injured, its been reported. never let mgmt take responsibility for you, they could give a shit at most places== like you said, they are wack

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    i did file it myself. when the police came to the club the manager said i was lying.

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    Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. well in that case, they should still have it filed, and unless he filed one as well, at least its on record. they still have to file it. just because he is your boss, does not make him more honest than you and the police should know that. did you file it completely sign the statement etc and they have it on record? or because mgmt said you were lying, they dismissed it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    ^ carries.. a.. gun.. to work?! and that's allowed?
    What's wrong with that?!

    I carry my firearm with me to and from work.

    I am surprised that you are so shocked, lol.

    Think about it, you are a very attractive woman, alone at all hours of the night, with quite a bit of cash on hand; dealing with drunken men, and jealous women. Makes sense to me TO carry, lol.

    I have a 1944 Colt .45 M1911. I also have a concealed carry permit, and carry damn near everywhere I go.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kalligirl View Post
    Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.. well in that case, they should still have it filed, and unless he filed one as well, at least its on record. they still have to file it. just because he is your boss, does not make him more honest than you and the police should know that. did you file it completely sign the statement etc and they have it on record? or because mgmt said you were lying, they dismissed it?
    the problem is all the cops in the area know the managers so they were quick to trust him over a stripper. you know? i signed a report and everything but nothing came of it.

    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    What's wrong with that?!

    I carry my firearm with me to and from work.

    I am surprised that you are so shocked, lol.

    Think about it, you are a very attractive woman, alone at all hours of the night, with quite a bit of cash on hand; dealing with drunken men, and jealous women. Makes sense to me TO carry, lol.

    I have a 1944 Colt .45 M1911. I also have a concealed carry permit, and carry damn near everywhere I go.
    i'm surprised that a club would allow that given the amount of stripper fights. i get your reasoning, but there's 2 sides to that, you know?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    What's wrong with that?!

    I carry my firearm with me to and from work.

    I am surprised that you are so shocked, lol.

    Think about it, you are a very attractive woman, alone at all hours of the night, with quite a bit of cash on hand; dealing with drunken men, and jealous women. Makes sense to me TO carry, lol.

    I have a 1944 Colt .45 M1911. I also have a concealed carry permit, and carry damn near everywhere I go.

    I have a permit too and i carry. I had a couple shady experiences and my club is in a bad part of town.

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