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    It's amazing....I've never in my stripping career witnessed any "extras" performed by other girls. I've heard abotu them, but never actually seen it. Maybe I was always to focused on myself and my job, and just never paid any attention to the other girls.

    But now I'm a waitress....it's amazing.....what I've seen in the past 2 days....


    I also learned somethign disturbing. I never as a stripper worked past 6am ish, so I don;t realyl knwo what goes on in a strip club after that time. Now I know.....it's the dirty girls time to shine! I don't know if it's cause they are drunk, if t's cause they have spent the evening with a good spending guy and decided to get closer.....
    I watched this girl make out with a customer for a half hour. Bouncers walked past, they didn; stop it. Not even in VIP, just on the floor.

    Which brings me to another thing that pisses off the stripper in me. The amount of girls who take a guy to a back corner to give him a private lapdance. Take that shit to VIP! Your sellign yourself short and making it harder on all the other girls to sell VIP. What's the fuckign point of doing a VIP if the guy gets the same shit for the price of a lapdance?

    Then there was a girl in VIP with a customer, and she tried to get me to give him( her customer) my cell number so we could go on a date. I think she was trying to set up a threesome between me her and her customer. WTF?

    My last rant:
    Drunk strippers. They seem to get worse and worse as the night goes on....The soud of puking really makes me ill. I hate HATE vomit, and the noise it makes comming out. If I'm trying to sit in the bathroom in pease and smoke a cig I do not wanna hear stripper yacking. Know your fucking limits!

    More on drunk strippers:
    Stumbling and slurring your speech is NOT sexy. Neither is drooling. But your so drunk you can't feel your chin to know your drooling. You look a damn mess. By the way...there are steps going up to the stage for a fucking reason. It is not ladylike to hop over the seats and roll up onto the stage. But of course you had to roll yoru ass onto the stage because your legs are to wobbly to walk up steps. NOWI know why they invented a pole! To hold up the drunk strippers.


    Grrrromg.

    I never knew. Call me naive. I just never paid attention to what other girls were doing all these years. Waitressing has opened my eyes, in so many ways...and I'm only on day 3.

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    NOWI know why they invented a pole! To hold up the drunk strippers.
    LOL. I'm going to tell custys that joke at work.

    I'm naive too, I'd be in shock if I saw a bunch of extras like that. Crazy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    NOWI know why they invented a pole! To hold up the drunk strippers.
    Haha! I told myself that before, too! I never get upset... it's always entertaining to see a drunk stripper stumbling about. One time, I saw one fall down some stairs (it's funny because she didn't get hurt).
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    I love your posts because they remind me, as much as it sucks to work in L.A., at least I'm not in Vegas!

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    I saw more when I was a waitress too! However, I waitressed over 10 years ago, and there was no VIP dark areas, and serious extras just weren't that prevalant ITC (even in Houston, yup!)

    The drunken dancer thing though! And even worse, drunken waitresses! They can be even worse than the strippers!

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    And girls wonder why the management and employees (floor staff, waitress', etc) get annoyed with the girls!!! It's not a specific girl it's a myriad of these types you've mentioned, and they lump us all together because of it!!

    Two girls get into a fight, one doesn't fight back because she doesn't want to get fired. When management comes over they send both girls home. The girl that didn't fight back was so pissed that she was being punished as well she starts running at the mouth to anyone who would (even if they didn't want) to listen. I keep trying to explain to her that management is trying to solve the problem the best they can, they have to deal with this kind of thing all the time. I say, if you were in the right just give it ten minutes and ask to talk to the manager, CALMLY. The house mom had even put in a good word for her and she was going to get to stay but she was so busy blabbing that they sent her home anyway.

    We're really all just a bunch of crazy strippers!

    Isn't it interesting from the other side, lol!

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    Is Vegas really THAT bad? I was thinking of taking a trip out there to work but now I am having second thoughts.

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    ^^^ Yes. It is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    Is Vegas really THAT bad? I was thinking of taking a trip out there to work but now I am having second thoughts.

    Eh..I like Vegas. Yes, the stripping has gotten to me lately...but I wouldn't want to dance anywhere else. But maybe I'm hardened? I don't think what I wrote was *that* bad.....

    I mean...like I said, as a stripper, I didn't notice any of this shit. I just did my job and didn't pay attention to anythign else.

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    LOL....I saw FS for the first time in the stripclub just last month...I thought I was so naive cause I had never seen that before (but I'd seen everything else).
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    I've changed my mind about wanting to work in Vegas. I wanted to work there for Vegas SW Fest because I would already be in town, but now I have no desire to work there. I also got some good advice from some great strippers on here, too, so yeah...I'm not going.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    (it's funny because she didn't get hurt).
    shit, i must be cruel because i still would have laughed.

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    Vegas isn't THAT bad. I haven't seen anything there that I haven't seen in any other city I've danced in (well, not counting Phx). In a regular club in a regular city, you have a few dirty girls out of, say, 40 working. But if you have 300 girls working like in Vegas, you are going to have way more dirty girls, so you are going to see more shit. As always, there's clubs where most of the girls are dirty and clubs where dirty girls are in the minority.

    I wouldn't mind working a night or two again in Vegas just for old times sake

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    I'd like to add that me changing my mind about Vegas has nothing to do with Kaylinn's recent observances. There are nasty extras girls who sell themselves short in every club in every part of the country.



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    I can imagine you'd see more as a waitress or other staffmember than as a stripper. I for one am too busy entertaining whoever I happen to be with at the time to notice what other girls are doing and with whom. Also, I'd frankly prefer NOT to know what nastiness some girls are up to because it would not be beneficial to my mood at work. I really only notice such things if it's really blatant and in my face.

    I tried waitressing at a SC once and lasted 2-3 days. All the bullshit (or more) for half the money (or less). No thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    The soud of puking really makes me ill. I hate HATE vomit, and the noise it makes comming out. If I'm trying to sit in the bathroom in pease and smoke a cig I do not wanna hear stripper yacking. Know your fucking limits!
    O.

    MY.

    That's the only reason I'd be afraid to live in Vegas...I imagine it as ppl just throwing up everywhere, left n right, on the street, steps of Bellagio, etc. But that's just me and the st00pid shit that runs my life when it shouldn't....


    Kaylinn, that's crazy, tho I'm not surprised, yea I think you'd see more shit as a waitress. Do you still like it tho, and the $$ is consistent? I think it was a good move for you, good luck and hope everything will continue to go aiight!

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    Honestly? The money sucks. I mean..compared to what I was used to. I'm making about $120 a night, for an 8 hour shift completly busting my ass hustling. But.....I am enjoying my stripper break, and I am enjooying the stressfree part. My body is taking a beating, but my mind is takign a break. I think I'll stick it out for 3 months, and go back to dancing. I just need a break for a bit.

    I made another observance tonight I didn't previously think to much of. Found money.
    I made an extra $123 off found money. I found a $100 bill on the floor, and also a bunch of random ones and a $20. So grand total tongiht I made $242, including my found money. I would feel stupid as a stripper walkign around looking in the chairs and on the floor, but as a waitress, it's my job to clean up. Amazing how much cash guys lose in a strip club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    Amazing how much cash guys lose in a strip club.
    Or maybe the drunk / drugged up strippers. I guess if you're finding their lost money it's kind of a karmic payment for putting up with their shit? LOL

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    Kaylinn, you should move to a better club once you have some more experience. I made more than that waitressing in Detroit. On a 5 hour shift. Have you asked any of the top tier clubs if they have any waitressing jobs open?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I made an extra $123 off found money. I found a $100 bill on the floor, and also a bunch of random ones and a $20. So grand total tongiht I made $242, including my found money.
    Heh. I picked up a trident gum wrapper off the floor last night because I thought it was a bill. I suck. But seriously, I love that you're sharing your perspective with us. I've never cocktailed before and I think the different hustle would be interesting to learn. I just like the dancing money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I made an extra $123 off found money. I found a $100 bill on the floor, and also a bunch of random ones and a $20. So grand total tongiht I made $242, including my found money. I would feel stupid as a stripper walkign around looking in the chairs and on the floor, but as a waitress, it's my job to clean up. Amazing how much cash guys lose in a strip club.
    This(plus the fact that I'm a clutz) is a HUGE reason why I always keep my eyes on the floor. I"ve found $100 bills a bunch of times!! (disclaimer..if it obviously belongs to someone...I"ll give it back..I take it when it is just sitting there with no owner to be seen)

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    I am definitely used to extras going on and dirty girls, but I keep hearing over and over how soulless and shady it is working in Vegas. But I lived in Hollywood - it can't be that bad.

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    ^^^ It is. Believe me. PM me if you want a rundown.

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    Interesting observations...I start cocktailing at the club I danced at for 2 years on monday. I have never seen any extras at my club, but I know they go on alot. I'm not looking forward to seeing them. yuck

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    So..more stuff to add to this thread.

    I witnessed a stripper get fingered last night. That was a first for me. Happened right on the main floor during a $20 lapdance. Nasty grossness. I informed a bouncer to keep an eye on that dance, as it was nasty gross...but he just kinda walked past and kept walking. EW.

    Last night it was very dead. Waitress actually were getting cut early!

    So listen to how dumb this is. At 5am, there were 3 waitresses left. They all kinda crapped out and stopped working. I waited on the few remainig tables myself, and cleaned the entire club, by myself. By the time I was finished cleaning, a manager came out, saw the empty floor, and sent the other 2 waitresses home. He said I had to stay.
    Why? Absolutly noone remained in the club. This was at 6am.
    He told me to sit down at the bar and have a drink.
    I don't wanna drink, I wanna go home!
    So I had to sit at the bar and have a drink, 45 minutes later, he let me go home.

    Why do they have such a problem with cutting the waitresees? It's almost like they just want to enforse their power just for the hell of it.
    Whatever.

    I also wanted to mention that many, many dancers will turn down drinks when they are offered to them by a cutsomer.
    Why do this? If he offers to buy you a drink, take it!! Order a fake one, order a water, a plain diet coke...doesn't matter. But why turn it down? The more drinks I serve, the more tips I make. Sure, that 1 drink the dancer turned down only caused me to lose a dollor or two..but for me, that adds up, espicially when I only made $45 as I had last night.

    So just a suggestion...if a customer offers you a dirnk, please take it. It's not gonna screw you out of money, it's only $7 for the drink. I don't caure if it's nonalcoholic or not. But that $1-$2 tip adds up for me.


    Strip clubs are starting to gross me out. I'm starting to see them with clear eyes again, from the other side, and I'm really starting to get grossed out.
    The constant grinding, boob grabbing, and even fingering..all for $20....I'm really starting to dislike strip clubs all tgether. Which sucks for me wanting to start dancing again when th econventions come out. I'm so turned off frm the whole thing right now....

    I will end this rant with an "overheard in the dresing room" quote from last night.
    " Girl, I wouldn't have fucked him bareback if I knew he had AIDS. I ain't that dumb."

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