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    need advice about going back. . .

    I have 2 issues right now. . . 10 weeks post-baby and I'm not sure if I'm ready to go back to work. My stomach is mostly flat, except for a tiny bump below my belly button, but its not cut at all. My upper body is completely fine, I even have some definition in my shoulders. However. . . my lower body is not great at all. I've been walking, strength training, and doing the elliptical but its taking time to get back in shape and I don't know when (if ever) I'm going to get my old body back.
    Also, I'm concerned about going back to work because I havent been at my old clubs in a year now and they might ask me to audition again and will probably be disappointed that I don't have the same body as before. Any advice PLEASE about getting my a$$ toned and back on stage? Should I go to completely different clubs until I look better or do you think managers have some loyalty to their dancers even when they're not at their best? Thanks for the advice

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    Default Re: need advice about going back. . .

    We can't really give an opinion on how you look without pics. But I think most girls would
    guess that if you're height/weight proportionate, you should be able to get hired somewhere reasonably decent.

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    Default Re: need advice about going back. . .

    Gosh you just had a baby 10 weeks ago. Don't be so tough on yourself. You're doing great with your workout just keep doing it. Keep up the healthy diet too. Like Teeth said ..proportion has alot to do with it. A little tummy never hurt anyone only the lack of confidence showing from said tummy.
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    Default Re: need advice about going back. . .

    Going back to the same club might be easier unless you want a change. I remember a girl who had just had a baby and came back as a cocktail waitress at the club until she was ready to start dancing again. Another one worked days until she felt comfortable to come back to nights. Talk to your old manager. I'm sure they will be loyal to you when you explain your situation.

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