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    I was doing a function at my club for a bucks night and the guys all seemed impressed with me until I took off my bikini. Then I heard 2 diff guys say "Oh why couldn't we get one with bigger tits!".
    Fucking bastards I can hear you.

    I am getting my boobs done in November, not for fuckwits like that but for me but it just made me feel so unsexy.
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    Oh, [email protected] them, not literally! Ha! Asswades! Don't even listen to them, let it go through one ear and out the other. But if you want to say something back to them say something like "listen, little dick man, you couldn't handle a woman like me, big or little tits so do yourself a favor and go home & jerk off cuz that's the most action little peewee is ever going to get".

    Some people can be so fcking rude. I swear I wonder if it's a case where the customer don't care that they hurt our feelings or they think that we're not real people without real feelings. Stupid idiots!

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    They should be grateful. Ignorant SOB's!!!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    Oh, [email protected] them, not literally! Ha! Asswades! Don't even listen to them, let it go through one ear and out the other. But if you want to say something back to them say something like "listen, little dick man, you couldn't handle a woman like me, big or little tits so do yourself a favor and go home & jerk off cuz that's the most action little peewee is ever going to get".

    Some people can be so fcking rude. I swear I wonder if it's a case where the customer don't care that they hurt our feelings or they think that we're not real people without real feelings. Stupid idiots!


    i love this response!! i'm so using this sometime!

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    I'm sorry hun. I had a similar comment made to me. It made me want to cry so relate to your incident. Keep your head up until surgery time and keep making good money. Don't let this fucker get you down.
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    Sorry. Definitely ignore them. They're not worth a second thought from you.

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    Um, I have the same if not smaller breasts to yours and did the same function without anyone making any comments about my boobs (well I didn't hear them).

    Or maybe I live in blissful ignorance?

    Plus it was ONLY two people out of HOW many that was at that function?

    I don't know... it's water off a ducks back to me as I'm not going to go get a BA anytime soon and for my age my boobs are awesome

    If they don't know that, then that is their loss


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    I like how on top of saying that, they refer to us (PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS, WOMEN) as an object--"why couldn't we get "ONE" with tits...

    GOD that pisses me off!!
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    I would go stand on the edge of the stage near him and loudly say: "That's fine, now lets talk about your body." and rip him apart.

    I've had two guys tell me once that if I got a breast augmentation I'd make more money. I just gave 'em a puh-leeze look and walked away. I've had so many more men tell me my tits and/or my body is perfect and to not change a thing and to never get a boob job lol. Every person likes something different, so you can only do what you like because you can never please everybody.

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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutbliss View Post
    I like how on top of saying that, they refer to us (PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS, WOMEN) as an object--"why couldn't we get "ONE" with tits...

    GOD that pisses me off!!
    That drives me insane too! I heard some guy say yesterday 'oh, in (name of town) you can do whatever you want to them'. We're not even people to some of these guys, Jaiz, so they needn't be people to us! You're totally sexy with or without the new boobs.

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    Yes, people can be so fucking rude. I once had a guy ask me (completely out of no where) "ever thought about getting breast implants?" I said "why do you ask?" He said "well, umm... they just look a little small." What a bastard.

    Easier said than done, but keep your chin up regardless.

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    Don't feel bad, seriously.

    I've had that same experience with a bachelor party and I even have implants! Groups of guys that come into the SC together have a tendency to act like stupid dogs.

    IGNORE and NEXT!

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    Jenny has a wonderful saying that applies to asshats like these.... I'll mis-quote it, so hopefully she'll pop in here and post it.




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    Wow. I'm really sorry you had to hear someone say that. I hear the pronoun "one" used often and it just makes you feel so low. Like, "Hey Bob, look at this one!" when I am right in front of them, standing there half naked. Like I'm a livestock specimen.

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    Aside from them being jackasses (no surprise there), think of it this way... They were probably going to say something rude if they were jerks and in that state of mind... and the WORST thing they could say were that your tits weren't huge.

    I've never had a boob-size comment... but I've had a couple of rude comments over the years... and mental images of doing the guy who said it bodily harm. ((hugs))
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    I just thought of another good burn on them, say out loud to another dancer in the club "Oh, why couldn't we get ONE with bigger wallets"

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    I just thought of another good burn on them, say out loud to another dancer in the club "Oh, why couldn't we get ONE with bigger wallets"
    That's gold right there.
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    I had one guy ask me once why I didn't have bigger tits (I'm a C-cup). I just smiled nonchalantly and said, "Oh, probably for the same reason you don't have a bigger dick." He wasn't happy. Ask me how much I care.

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    aww. guys are dumb. i totally like some of the responses in this thread!

    the other night this guy actually pinched some fat on my sides and goes 'you need to go to the gym' ummm.. FAT MEN do not get to tell a small girl with a little fat on her stomach that they are fat.

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    thanks for the responses ladies. this is what i love most about SW that they can try to cut us down at work but we are all here in a community that supports and understands

    thank u all the comments put a smile to my face.

    when he referred to me as "one" I felt objectified too. I usually dont mind being objectified as in "oh nice ass" blah blah but referring to us as if we are not even people just sucks yet they get annoyed when we call them wallets.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    When this happens to me, I politely remind them that I have feelings. It throws them off guard and they become extremely apologetic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    When this happens to me, I politely remind them that I have feelings. It throws them off guard and they become extremely apologetic.
    You know, that is a really good idea! I can't believe I never thought of that. I'm too much of a cynical bitch I guess lol. But when something like that happens to me again I'll try it out.

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    Jaizaine, when in November are you getting your BA? Mine is scheduled for November 20th Maybe we can become BA buddies? I'm having a hard time hanging in there at work because I just want my new boobs so bad, I know I'll feel better about myself... It'd be nice to have somebody to keep motivated with! Oh, and bitch about having to stay home from work for a few weeks.

    Keep your head up, those guys have to go into the SC and pay to see you topless because they know you wouldn't even give them the time of day in real life. Fuckers.

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    I'm really paranoid someone will call me fat when I start. I'll probably cry.

    If they say my boobs are too small though I'll laugh. I have D's and I certainly don't want bigger ones.
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    Quote Originally Posted by beautiful. View Post
    Jaizaine, when in November are you getting your BA? Mine is scheduled for November 20th Maybe we can become BA buddies? I'm having a hard time hanging in there at work because I just want my new boobs so bad, I know I'll feel better about myself... It'd be nice to have somebody to keep motivated with! Oh, and bitch about having to stay home from work for a few weeks.

    Keep your head up, those guys have to go into the SC and pay to see you topless because they know you wouldn't even give them the time of day in real life. Fuckers.
    YEY BA buddies!! mine is scheduled for Nov 28th if I go with the surgeon who I had the first consult with. I am still not sure about the tear drop shaped implants that he uses because they have a tendency to rotate (so i have read). So next week I have another consult with a diff surgeon. If I decide to go with him I might have a diff surgery date.

    We willhave nice bewbs for summer!!! it will be the firs ttime i willenjoy bikini shopping!!
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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