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Alright, I'm a newb. And a custie. And a guy. And I have a real crush on a stripper at the local club who I want to ask out without being a tool, so I'm here to ask other strippers for advice.
I've noticed from browsing on here that the consensus is that "customers are pathetic and I'd never want to see one outside of work." Well, I admit that lately I am feeling kind of pathetic, too. All my friends have moved away after college so it's just me in town, lonely and still struggling to keep my head above water. I'm socially awkward and I have a hard time meeting people I connect with. I wind up going to this club about once a week just to have someone fun to talk to. That's how I met her.
Now, I do tip and buy some dances out of respect. I understand that she is working and she's there to make money, so I don't demand that she waste her time making smalltalk with me when she could be selling VIP dances, but I usually go on slow nights so this isn't that much of an issue. I actually feel embarrassed to be paying a girl I'm interested in to take her clothes off for me, even if that's how she makes a living.
I assume most strippers think that if they meet a guy at the club he must be a loser who's only into her for her body or assume he thinks she's a slut who'll hop into bed with anyone for a price. The girl is hot (obviously) but what I really like is her personality. I'm into her for who she is, or at least who she seems to be at the club. We share a lot of the same interests and I felt like there was some genuine chemistry there, personality-wise (tough to describe). It's like we could have a deep connection if only I could have somehow met her somewhere else (and not fucked things up as I tend to do). I want to take a chance and somehow ask this girl out for something casual, where we can talk and have a good time without a lot of pressure on anybody. Or without getting her in trouble at work.
I'm sure most of you are smirking about how I obviously got played masterfully and that this is all part of the hustle you pull off dozens of times a night, but the way she was acting, and laughing (this loud, dorky, squeaky laugh that really made me fall for her) makes me want to pursue. I'm not going to throw tons of money at her, and the last thing I want her to think is that I'm trying to solicit her for prostitution, but it would be nice to hang out sometime when she's not working. Since I've only seen her a couple of times I don't think I fall under the category of "regular customer" yet. "Perverted Loser" maybe, but not "regular." Hopefully.
Fuck, I'm tearing myself up over this. If anyone has any advice, even if it's just to say "you're a fool who should stop deluding yourself," I would appreciate it.


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