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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    I'd prefer the custy simply tell me that I'm not his type. Then you don't waste my time, I don't waste yours, and you don't look like an idiot for using some stupid typical line. Win-win.

    Being rude or insulting about it is a great way to end up with your drink in your lap; a simple "thanks, but you're not my type" will do the trick. It's clear and direct without being insulting, IMHO. I can't get offended just b/c some guy really has a thing for blondes, black girls, or whatever else I'm not.

    Then again, I'm not one of those "really annoying girls who won't leave you alone." If it's clear that I'm not getting $$ from a guy, I'm off to the next one. Why would I want to waste my time?
    I agree with her totally! No way would I feel offended! When I offer a dance I'm just doing business, not trying to date you personally. If you're not interested in doing business, I'm not interested in hanging around. I'd WAY prefer a clear no than to be kept hanging. The worst are the customers who confuse a strip club with a pickup bar -- the men who just want to sit and cop a feel, men who evade buying a dance but ask you what you're doing "after work." Haha. So anyway, make sure you are (politely) blunt with this girl.

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    Flatus or excessive eructation
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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    It has only happened to me once or twice over many years, but it has happened -- when a club is really dead. A dancer will either continue to hang around after being told "no" quite clearly, or will simply never ask for a dance, presumably because she would rather sit with the customer and do nothing than sit alone and do nothing. It is particularly hard when she doesn't ask because then to say "no" you have to both the raise the topic and say no at the same time.

    I simply refuse to be rude, even with someone who doesn't get it. So I think Crizgolfer's "go to the men's room" is the best idea. I did it one time, and before doing so identified a different dancer. When I came back I started a conversation with her at a different location.

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    I've found "Excuse me. I really should go tip that [younger and prettier] girl [on stage] a dollar." works pretty well with no side effects. It will even get a girl off your lap for a few minutes who is essentially doing free dances to get your attention and to cockblock the other girls.

    I would avoid "I was having fun until you came over" when friends come over demanding drinks who are jealous/angry...unless of course you want to see her throw an angry tantrum.

    If you got game, for fun try: "I don't want no dances" [with attitude and perhaps a dismissive wave]
    But watch out as that attitude with girls who aren't used to being told "No" might end up getting you laid instead of being left alone.

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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    I just say I waiting for a certain girl.

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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    Honestly, for me, just say "no thank you." If I continue on about my hustle to you, reppeat, "No thank you." I then get the idea, we all shouldknow that we are someone's type. But then there are the ones that don't care what type you like, it's going to be them. I would continue with the "No thank you " approach, they'll have no choice but to leave. Don't let them pressure you to do what you don't want to do.
    I have a loto f guys tell me I'm not their type or they're waiting for someone else. Then I say, Okay! And I'll go tell the other girl the guy wants a dance. I'm not going to be hurt if I am not what they want. It gives me more opportunity to get the guy who wants me.
    Like this is, a business. No big deal.

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    I would get up and move to another seat, but Im rude, so maybe the, I am waiting for so and so that always makes me split faster then speedy gonzales.

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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    Quote Originally Posted by buffie06 View Post
    Tell her you dont have any money. If that doesnt work ask her to buy you a drink and tell her you will pay her back next time.
    that one made me laugh..
    but if the guy then goes to vip for 3 hours with someone else.. he sounds like a MAJOR ass since he wanted to take your 5 dollars or however much for a drink...

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    How about, "not to be rude, but I'm actually not interested in any dances tonight. Thanks for your time, though." Polite, direct. I've heard this a few times, and customers have always gotten a very nice handshake, a hearty smile, and we've always parted on good terms.

    I PERSONAlly wouldn't be offended by the "not your type" comment, but I know many girls who would, so I'd go with a more polite, generalized statement. Many girls don't have high enough esteem to separate "type" from an overall view of "hot."
    If I hear "type" I usually assume: I'm not tan enough, my tits are too small, my hair is too short, he wants a brunette/darker haired girl, I'm too skinny, etc etc etc... could be a plethora of things, but generally I don't bother guessing anymore. Too much effort- I simply take it as it is (chances are he's not my type either!) and move on!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smith View Post
    If you got game, for fun try: "I don't want no dances" [with attitude and perhaps a dismissive wave]
    But watch out as that attitude with girls who aren't used to being told "No" might end up getting you laid instead of being left alone.
    Wait, what? Are you serious? You've been reading that pick up artist book, haven't ya? lol. Don't expect that this will actually work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smith View Post
    If you got game, for fun try: "I don't want no dances" [with attitude and perhaps a dismissive wave] But watch out as that attitude with girls who aren't used to being told "No" might end up getting you laid instead of being left alone.
    Yes, do be careful how you use this one. Emotionally damaged women like us cannot help but fuck rude men. It's a sickness.

    No, but really. I like it when guys are proactive and say, "I'm not ready for any dances right now." Please be polite when you say it, though. There's really no response I can give to this except to wish you a pleasant night and walk away, so that's what I do.

    "I'm waiting for someone" gets rid of me like a shot. I'll know if you are lying, but what am I going to do, argue about it?

    Telling me you're here for a drink is not nearly as effective. Many guys say they're "just here for a drink" because they're embarrassed to say "I'm horny and want to look at naked chicks." So a good number of guys who tell me they're "here for a drink" will end up getting dances.

    I suppose if you really, really cannot get a girl off your lap you might tell her she's not your type, but if you ask me, please don't go there right away. A night of walking up the people and hearing "sorry-you're-not-my-type" over and over would wreak havoc on my nerves. I don't want to know WHY you don't want a dance (unless it's something I can fix, like "you have toilet paper on your shoe.") Just tell me you don't want one, so I can move on. Say it in a nice way, too -- a way that wouldn't hurt your feelings if it were said to you. Golden rule applied in strip clubs, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    My bad. I only read her comment. Sorry, Picaresque.

    If Mister Bill is advocating a way to enjoy the show without spending, he deserves to be chastised. In the case of others ( like myself ) there to see someone specific, I stand by my statement. In my analogy about the store, I guess he would be considered a shoplifter.
    this is the funniest post I've read on here in quite a time! I got a serious case of the giggles

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Wait, what? Are you serious? You've been reading that pick up artist book, haven't ya? lol. Don't expect that this will actually work.
    you took the words right out of my mouth! That book is utter trash.

    I won't sleep with just any asshole. he also has to be hot and have drugs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    I won't sleep with just any asshole. he also has to be hot and have drugs!
    Oh, you know if he insulted you just right you'd be all over that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Oh, you know if he insulted you just right you'd be all over that.
    you're right!

    I think I'm gonna haveta switch clubs, b/c all the jerks at mine are giving my coochie way too much of a workout! I need a nicer clientelle, so my pussy can have a freakin break!!!!

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    In most cases, a simple no thanks will do. But there's a small minority that don't (want to) get it. In my extreme case, I happened to be sitting by stage seat. I asked the dancer on stage I kinda knew- "hey, how about a few dances when you get down"? Of course, undesired guest heard that, got very indignant. I diffused argument- on a few subsequent visits, offending dancer didn't bother me at all. Stage dancer wasn't really my 1st choice, but she did nicely in this situation.

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    I have heard one line used by many guys...

    "What time do you get off work? You should come party with me and my buddies."

    The usual result is dancer leaving skid marks...

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    Fire off a warning shot.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    tell her you're single
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    I actually really wouldn't like the "you're not my type" or "I prefer blondes." It actually annoys the hell out of me and I really do find it rude. If you prefer a certain hair colour/weight/race/whatever, don't start telling me about it but rather find a dancer that best meets your needs. Or if you've spotted someone, yes indeed do hand me a few dollars and ask me if I can point her your way. Because I can't instantly switch into being your type or being a 6' tall black girl or whatever, your "type" is your problem not mine. And if you have really strong preferences of type it might be that you never find the type of girl you're looking for, in which case you're too picky already and shouldn't be wasting your or our time at the club.

    Maybe I'm rare in that but I would much rather fetching a girl who can get your dollars out of you than just watching you say "not my type" to everyone and being a dickwad in general. Or maybe it's just that the customers who have given me the "not my type" have just said it in a very rude manner and haven't picked anyone to buy a dance from. Either way, if you do decide to use that, make sure to say it politely and calmly (but assertively), and it'll be more likely to be responded to in a polite and calm way too.
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    Heh, the conversation goes like this in escalating order
    • I am here to see someone.
    • I haven't seen her yet, but she should be here tonight
    • or she knows I am here to see her, when shes ready she will come over.
    • If I don't get dances from her I will get dances from "Y"
    • or I don't plan on getting dances I'm just gonna tip the stage
    • I won't be getting dances from you tonight maybe some other night.
    • Here is a dollar, please go tip the girl on stage. (repeat)
    • I am sorry, I don't like blondes
    • Blondes might as well be guys
    • I like girls
    • Please go away
    • I will never ever spend money on you, please leave.
    • Ignore
    • Ask management to have her leave you alone.


    The truth just works, and after awhile the word spreads.

    You really are just there to see "X"

    Then they get really creative, start saying they are friends with "X" and don't you want both of us to play with you...

    Gotta love SS...

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    Can I actually change my answer to "You can't. You are now stuck with her for all time"?
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    Try, "You seem like a very pretty, nice young lady, but you're not my type! I know you'll have a great night!"
    "She held me close and whispered in my ear how wonderful I was. Since I'm not wonderful. I was pretty sure this was a trap. So I figured I'd better grope her as much as I could before they sprung the trap. You've got to take what you can get in this life. I read that in a magazine. So I started smearing kisses on her and pawing the front of her dress, trying to get my money's worth before somebody bashed my head in." John Swartzwelder

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    I've got it!

    Just tell her, "Wait a minute while I go out to my car, take off my underwear, and change into my sweatpants!"

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    Say " No, thank you." Always works for me . Said with a smile is even better.

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