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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    I am still discussing an extreme situation, where the dancer will not leave me alone, even when I have left the table and moved around a bit. Almost like stalking. And picking an argument because I won't buy a dance, shouting "What's wrong? I know you've got money." Since I can't afford the publicity of a public scene in a strip club, I just leave. But I let the manager know what happened. If I had a lower public profile, maybe moving around would work.

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    For everyone who suggested saying, "No thank you," I think you misread the original post.

    If a girl asks me if I'd like a lap dance, "No thank you" is perfect. But that's not the situation we're talking about. We're talking about when a dancer comes up and asks, "How's your night going? Mind if I sit here? Where are you from? Have you been here before? What do you do? Yadda yadda yadda."

    If you were to ask a customer how his night was going and he said "No thank you," you wouldn't consider it a bit dismissive, and possibly rude?

    I'm interested in this topic because I've had this exact conversation before:

    Her: Hi. What's your name? [Starting to sit down next to me . . .]

    Me: Hi. I'm Brock. Just so you know, I'm not going to be interested in getting a dance.

    Her: God. [Rolls her eyes.] I didn't ask you to dance. I was just making conversation. Geez. [Gets up to leave, obviously pissed.]

    Me:

    It's definitely caused me to think twice before trying to avoid wasting someone's time again.

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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    I simply tell them while I would find their company very delightful, I am there for a girl. If they insist on who, I simply say "Sorry miss, I don't kiss and tell."

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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    its like avoiding a homeless person - Dont Make Eye Contact


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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    when she asks if she can sit there, say no. if she asks if someone is sitting there, say you dont want any company or that yes, someone is sitting there.
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    Very Bad Gas.
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    Default Re: What's the best way to get rid of that annoying girl who won't leave me alone?

    Quote Originally Posted by Brock View Post
    For everyone who suggested saying, "No thank you," I think you misread the original post.

    If a girl asks me if I'd like a lap dance, "No thank you" is perfect. But that's not the situation we're talking about. We're talking about when a dancer comes up and asks, "How's your night going? Mind if I sit here? Where are you from? Have you been here before? What do you do? Yadda yadda yadda."

    If you were to ask a customer how his night was going and he said "No thank you," you wouldn't consider it a bit dismissive, and possibly rude?

    I'm interested in this topic because I've had this exact conversation before:

    Her: Hi. What's your name? [Starting to sit down next to me . . .]

    Me: Hi. I'm Brock. Just so you know, I'm not going to be interested in getting a dance.

    Her: God. [Rolls her eyes.] I didn't ask you to dance. I was just making conversation. Geez. [Gets up to leave, obviously pissed.]

    Me:

    It's definitely caused me to think twice before trying to avoid wasting someone's time again.

    Maybe it doesn't occur to some people. I am brand new to a club. I've never worked in a club before. I've asked other girls what I'm supposed to do in my capacity, as I'm not technically a dancer, but I'm hustling massages and even private dances (as allowed by management). I love going to clubs as a customer. I take my own ideas of what I like into my hustle. However, when I've been put with another girl to shadow and see how she hustles, what you described is the basis for our hustle. "Hi how are you tonight? Are you having fun? What do you do? Are you from the area?" are all questions that some of us who have NEVER worked in the industry before are being told to use as a guideline for approaching customers. And personally I'm more willing to buy a dance (Or several dances) from a girl (And tip her well) if a girl takes the time to sit for a few minutes and chat me up first. In fact, my fiance and I are more willing to buy multiple couples dances if she chats us up.

    Different strokes for different folks, but the point is some of us are getting into our groove for our hustle, girls in our club aren't really helpful sometimes, we don't want you to be uncomfortable, but saying we're the aggressive girls by asking you questions and engaging in conversation...I don't think that's always fair.

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