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If a guy will not behave I will either, airdance the rest of the song and then move on to greener pastures. OR, even better, if I already have the money or if its on the table where I can just grab it, I'll just up and walk away with the cash. I'll mutter, "That's it, you cant behave so your dance is over" so they get the point. But take off before they can argue, because its not worth your time.





^Sometimes I'll do that, and sometimes I'll get more aggressive. I've been known to grab guys' wrists and SLAM them on the chair arms, dig my nails into their arms/wrists, straight up hit them, etc. It depends on the situation and how bad they've gotten. But I always walk away with the money in the end. Guys like this do not understand /accept "no" or verbal chastising. And they are not worth your energy to keep dancing - there are other guys who will be nicer AND pay you.
So slap them then. I do. They know they're not supposed to do that shit, and I see no problem with slapping a guy who's assaulting you. You'd be surprised how often they get the idea and straighten up when you hit them - I've even gone on to sell second and third dances to a guy I slapped on the first one. They don't always straighten up, but it's amazing how often they do.Originally Posted by cutey503
Some of these dipshits think your sweet "stop its" and "don't do thats" are flirting, and they figure you're just trying to stay out of trouble but they can really do whatever they want. Drop the sweet act just long enough to slap him and stare him sternly in the eyes and say, very seriously, "DO NOT do that again or you will LEAVE." Give him a second or two to process what you just said, then smile warmly and remind him that you can still have fun within the rules, and go on with your dance. This usually works, but if not, get a bouncer and throw him out, or at least end the dance.





i disagree about slapping customers. in a litigious nation, slapping can cost you and/or the club a lawsuit. i know it seems silly, but DONT act out with a counter-assault. it can also get you fired.
i would just tell them something along the lines of, you can't touch in here, but let's go to vip where you can touch. that seems to stop it and brign up VIP in one fell swoop. works for me!
Love it!
Self-defense is self-defense. When you've told him not to grab your tits and he does it anyway, that is sexual assault and you have every right to fight back. Too many women wind up hurt and violated because they didn't have the backbone to stand up for themselves.
^^Yep. I"ve slapped many a custie and never got in trouble. I've even broken a few bones.
Of course this depends on your club..if the bouncers/managers are dicks who side with custies no matter what you cant get away with it. But I refuse to work at clubs like that.
At my club....if you did something bad enough to make me hit you....the bouncer will follow up by beating you bloody. They know me well enough to know I had to have a DAMN good reason for it.
A simple slap of his hand and a loudly growled "BAD...NO" works most of the time. If they act like dogs..treat them like dogs




I completely agree you, 100% but the only question I have, is would a jury believe a stupid, slutty stripper that obviously asked for it?Especially if the jury has house wives sitting on it, you know they'd love to blame us!
I've found telling that each time they touch, it costs $100, they don't want to spend that much to touch a boob. Men are like children, they'll try to get away with as much as they can, they have to be disciplined.
totally. Or if they don't want to go in the VIP, you can dance 2 feet away from them.
There is nothing fair about this business, so don't believe you have any rights. I've gotten in trouble for just farting on customers, so I don't even want to know what would happen if I hit one because he "touched my boob."
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lol farting? Don't they know whoever smelt it, dealt it?
Agreed, I wouldn't hit a customer either. For all I know they might hit me back, and who knows if a bouncer (all we have is 2-3 managers here) is anywhere near to watch out for me.
he totally deserved it and I walked away telling him what I did... and then he told on me.![]()
The funny part of the story is that chrissy got put on suspension for saying, "ha! You must have been a real asshole!" when she found out I did it.
Now I just do it and don't announce it.





Predatory males I'm afraid. Good odds that a fair percentage of them *know* that they shouldn't be touching, but they'll do as much as they can get away with. Sad to say, it's a game for them.
What's the down side from their point of view? The worst that normally happens is that you push their hands away. That's why they keep trying to touch your boobs.
The only way they'll stop is if they know there will be adverse consequences.
If they've already paid, why don't you say "touch my boobs again, and I'll get the bouncer to escort you from the club".
That way they've got far more to lose than you getting irritated at them.
Phil.
or, "dance is over and you owe me a tip or I'll have you thrown out"...which of course will never happen, but at least you can get a tip. I'm all about maximizing my profit from the asshole because he's already proven he wants to get me for all he can, so I play his game.
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Luckily at my club, they have to pay first anyway, and no refunds what-so-ever so we're always guaranteed at least our part of the flat lap dance fee no matter what happens.
I got kind of violent recently with another customer that tried to bite my nipple on stage, I grabbed his head with my fingernails really hard and yelled very loudly at him two inches from his face in front of all the other customers. He was embarrassed enough to tip me really good lol.
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How is the couch/chair/LD set-up??? At my club, we have bed dances (50 bucks) and boob-grabbing is pretty standard.... but if Mr. Octopus becomes Mr. OctoPUSSY & doesn't get it after I try to slide away & do some defensive dancing moves, it's often both helpful & a turn-on for the customer to take control and pin his hands behind his head, then continue to dance up close & more personal than before... most guys like this power play & to see a little bit of domination, plus it takes away the pressure of getting grabbed or any attempts at fingering. It's a sexy defensive move that works a bit better than slapping...![]()
If you are allowed to...one thing I do when they wont stop is slide onto my knees and do the dance with my boobs in his lap(we are a full contact club). So now all he can get to is my hair!LOL!
When I do the body slide to boobs on the lap move, the gropers just put their hands on the insides of thier thighs. Palms upward and everything, as if I'm just going to slide my boobs into his waiting hands. Evasive maneuvering becomes half the dance with these types.
yep. I get that too, Z
those guys pretty much get the back side of me with me leaning over as far as possible.
Meh...I did it when I had no boobs too. Just friction dance on the breastbone!
And yeah..I've done the grab my own boob move too!
I KNOW! I dont understand how this is fun for these guys...you cant even dance for them...it becomes a 3 minute wrestling match after which I'm pissed, the bouncer yells at him and I tell the other girls he's a pig. Fun night out eh?![]()
At the beginning of the dance:
Have him sit down, so you are higher up than him, in a position of dominance. GET THE $$$ UP FRONT. Say to him: "I get a lot of naughty boys in here. The rules are no touching. If you touch, the dance is over. Are you gonna be a good boy?" If he says yes, say, "okay let's have fun, and I'll get really close." Follow through with the rules.
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