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    I danced for this guy last Wednesday at last call, so I could only give him one dance. HE came in last night, asked me if I remembered him, gave me a quick hint, and I remembered who he was. He asked if he could get a lapdance (like I would turn it down from someone who so politely asked.) and I said sure. We wandered upstairs, he paid for a dance, and positioned his lunchbox parallel to the floor so he would get the most traction. After the dance, he asks to charge three more (after asking if it would show up as my club, which it doesn't.) and proceeds to ask me if I will just gyrate against central command for the entire duration. It clicks, I know exactly what he wants. And I don't do that.

    So I managed to keep him from losing it with infrequent griding and controlled pressure. It was very obvious he was trying to force one out anyway. I was thoroughly disgusted and I really wanted to let him have a piece of my mind, but I thanked him for the dances, and he went downstairs to talk to the guy he came in with. He got no more dances.

    How would you handle a customer like this?

    (On hindsight, I should have sold the throbbing schmuck a CR.)

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    Yea, i would have sold him a CR. Otherwise, I'd tell him that while I was a naughty naughty girl I would get in trouble for just grinding. So I have to move around some.

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    as a very infrequent SC attender, and also infrequent reader of this forum, you may have to forgive my next question(s)...

    if he's paying for dances, and as long as you're not having skin-skin or fluid exchange...why does it bother you that he wanted to get off on your dance?

    Just curious. Not looking to start a pissing match.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    if he's paying for dances, and as long as you're not having skin-skin or fluid exchange...why does it bother you that he wanted to get off on your dance?
    Because a lot of dancers don't feel comfortable with that level of contact. And it is against a lot of club rules, and it breaks the law in a lot of places. Plus, it's fucking vile. Need more reasons?
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    Because I'm not there for him to get off on. I'm a dancer, not a prostitute.

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    Actually there is fluid, that gets on the skin if a guy orgasams during a LD.

    Where do you think the "wetness" goes to?

    If you do a search on SW there's plenty of threads about it.

    Plus if some wanker gets off during one of my LD's, he best start shelling out some cash.

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    Agreed. I would just say you can't because of the rules, and take him for all you can get without the heavy contact.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde
    if he's paying for dances, and as long as you're not having skin-skin or fluid exchange...why does it bother you that he wanted to get off on your dance?
    Because I'm a dancer, not a pocket pussy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hearts View Post
    Agreed. I would just say you can't because of the rules, and take him for all you can get without the heavy contact.

    Exactly. The guy deserves it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrawberrySwitchblade View Post
    Because I'm not there for him to get off on. I'm a dancer, not a prostitute.
    well. i dont think the guy getting off makes you a prostitute. but its gross just the same.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    well. i dont think the guy getting off makes you a prostitute. but its gross just the same.

    It's strip tease, not strip fuck you on the sofa or Strip and grind till your nasty ass comes on my butt.


    Strippers tease.

    Prostitutes fuck. ( And that usually includes an orgasm )

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    A good bet is to pull the "oh, I can't be very naughty out here at all, everybody's watching!" routine to get a VIP or CR. Personally, I would give him heavier contact in the room (partially so I could claim to still be an honest woman and partially because I have no issues with some heavy grinding), but I would still not do that "all grinding all the time" routine. Why make him come when you can get lots of money from a desperate man? With luck, you might even be able to get him worked up enough (without reaching his goal) that he'd extend.

    Maybe I sound evil and mercenary, but if he just wants to get his rocks off, there are "massage" parlors that will do that for him for under $150 (sometimes even under $100). If that's all he wants, prostitution is a much better "bang" for his buck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChloeTheRed View Post
    Maybe I sound evil and mercenary, but if he just wants to get his rocks off, there are "massage" parlors that will do that for him for under $150 (sometimes even under $100). If that's all he wants, prostitution is a much better "bang" for his buck.
    I swear, there has to be some fucked up psychological reasons guys just don't go to the massage parlors or call an escort. It's like they can't admit they're pathetic enough to pay for an orgasm - they just so happened to give a stripper money and she just so happened to get him off quit harassing me at my job, johns!

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    A genuine question from a custies perspective.

    Would any of you get upset if someone "popped", during an air dance?

    And no, it hasn't happened to me. But some of you are very good at your craft, and I'm sure that it does happen.

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    ^^^During an air dance, I'd think he was a dork, but I wouldn't be too upset provided he hadn't tried to touch me.
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    Still gross and he's still going to pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 423texas View Post
    A genuine question from a custies perspective.

    Would any of you get upset if someone "popped", during an air dance?

    And no, it hasn't happened to me. But some of you are very good at your craft, and I'm sure that it does happen.
    I've had that happen. I kind of felt sorry for him(and even sorrier for his wife since it took him all of 75 seconds and I was arms length away ) BUt as long as it doesnt touch me...not that big a deal.

    Even if it happens during a dance..I'm kind of grossed out, but if it kind of snuck up on the guy...I'm not mad. If he oculdnt help it....though I appreciate a warning if possible!

    What pisses me off if guys who go in with the INTENTION of getting off. Thats not what a dance is all about. Its entertainment...a tease...NOT a 3-minute dry hump til you spew baby batter on yourself. That should NOT be your GOAL.

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    If a guy actually came during an air dance, I would feel a mixture of pity, revulsion, and amusement. And he's going to give me one hell of a good tip for it.

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    I'll probably regret saying anything, but here goes. There are PLENTY of clubs where this type of contact is not only acceptable, but encouraged. I've been in them in all over the country, from Florida to San Fran and quite a few places inbetween. I've also been to lots of clubs where it NEVER happens. And then there's the clubs where some do, and some don't.

    If the guy is expecting it at a club and he's a newbie there, tell him it doesn't happen there. Be nice, but firm. If he's been there before, it sounds like other dancers provide that type of contact.

    I totally agree that if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it. But the whole prostitution argument can (and will) go on forever. There's lots of dancers and they all have their limits and their own boundry, and in the same club there's often lots of different sets of limits and boundries.

    Go on, rip me apart. But it's true, and I've experienced all parts of the spectrum. Frankly, I like MOST of the spectrum, too!

    Just my 2 cents......

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    Where I first started stripping, guys behaving like this (in this $100 per 15 minute champagne room -- that's the girl's cut) -- was de rigueur. I know it's sad, but that's what stripping is by and large in a lot of the country! It's crazy, and I feel lucky to have relocated to an area where the contact is so pathetically low it's amazing guys buy dances at all, but that's just the way it is. Sometimes customers are not accustomed to the regional differences, and they think that some strippers will happily grind on their erections. I would fuck with a customer that was so persistently rude, though. Demand more money, refuse to dance with him, have him kicked out of the club...whatever you have to do to feel alright about it, if you're not comfortable with that.

    I'm sorry he made you feel bad...

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    Quote Originally Posted by major_wood View Post
    If the guy is expecting it at a club and he's a newbie there, tell him it doesn't happen there. Be nice, but firm. If he's been there before, it sounds like other dancers provide that type of contact.
    that is so far from the truth. guys lie all the time to make girls think that other girls do it, in hopes that this girl will if she hears that.

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    It blows my mind that a guy has to even ask why it would bother us that a guy is trying to get off on our dances, ummm, because it's fucking gross for one thing, why don't you have a guy splooge on you and see if you like it and secondly because we're not hookers! If you're that desperate, go get a prostitute or go home and jerk off, don't come into my club thinking you're in a brothel, fucking idiotic losers!!!!!

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    Wow, now that I think about it, even if my MAN came on me thru his pants (haha never would), it's grosser than shooting it all over my face. It's fucking slimy and cold.

    Is it that hard to "put yourself in someone else's shoes"?

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    ^^I know right?? And this is why we don't care for guys posting in SG...


    For me, it's just far too intimate to share with a customer. I can't even talk dirty to customers! And this is why I don't!! But a lot of girls do go for customers with this intention. I used to know a girl in Detroit, her line was, "I'll make you cum in 5 songs." That was all she said (we heard from other customers) and all night she was in and out of the VIP room, $100 off each guy she made bust in his pathetic little pants. Ew.

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    They don't put themselves in "someone else's shoes" because we, as dancers, are not "someone else." These kinds of guys don't see us as people, just strippers. The notion that we might have thoughts, feelings, or preferences never even occurs to them.

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