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    Pretty much.

    I developed a very close friendship between myself and 3 girls at work. I saw them both inside and outside of work (except one who lives far away) and at work they were my rock. Pretty much because we supported each other. Helped eachother get dances, deal with assholes and just had a fun time together. I actually looked forward to work to see these girls coz they made time there a lot more bearable.

    well now two of them have left because they both got pregnant. So now it's just me and one of the girls left.

    Both myself and the other girl who is left cried when we found out. I know it sounds childish but it can be such a hard job to deal with at times and we really depended on eachother.

    Im feeling a bit down about it and i know i will really miss my friends. I will see speak to them of course and one of them i will always still see outside of work but it wont be the same. i wont get to see her twice a week and wont have as much in common because we wont have work to laugh and bitch about.

    I hate change!!

    I guess ill be like how i was when i started at this club, just plot along by myself. I will still have one great friend there but she is not working this sat.

    Have any of you experienced similar situations?
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    Default Re: my support network at work is gone

    my best friend at work just got fired, because two girls (who don't even work our shift) turned against her and told the manager a bunch of lies about her.

    i could hardly even dance yesterday... i actually left early because i was so upset. i still have 2 girls on my shift who i'm pretty close to, but this girl was my same age and so sweet and funny and managed to get me motivated to go practice on the pole or whatever, when wewere dead and i just wanted to slump at the bar and drink beer.

    so today's gonna suck. one of the other girls is about to move to another state, so she'll only be around till the end of the month... i'm bummed.


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    maybe this is why i tend to like to keep to myself alot at work and not really 'get involved' with anyone too much because of the nature of this industry.. i use my support network outside of work via blogs on the internet etc as well as here (to a certain extent)... thus i try to have my 'rock'.. the things that keep me sane with this business based outside of work thus they won't change too much.

    i know if a friend of mine stopped working at a specific hostel in melbourne i would feel more than a little lost tho' i have started to 'get to know' the other night manager there.. it isn't the same...

    this is where being able to work as a loner comes in real handy

    i've never really viewed this business as much of a 'team orientated' type of thing anyway hence the reason i can work along or with others


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    awwww. that sucks

    well, there's only one solution: get knocked up too

    j/k. you'll make new friends in time, and in the meantime, you'll learn how you can always rely on yourself,

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    Default Re: my support network at work is gone

    i had one friend that i moved around with. we arent friends anymore but when we were, i would try to always work with her. now i have one good friend at work, and even though i have other friends, i like working way better when shes there. i dont know what i'd do if she quit, i'd go crazy! im sorry

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    I had this happen, when I lived in PA I had a group of girls I was tight with and I felt like separation anxiety when I was away. Now it's taken a while (like 7 months) but I have some girls I'm very cool with at my new place. Give it time, you will find some new girls, and before you know it, those babies will be out and your girlfriends will need money again.

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    I have one work friend who I really like and I really would probably go to another club if she ever quit. It's not like we hang out all of the time, but knowing I have one ally is enough to make it bearable.

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    aw, that really sucks, virtual hug going out to you

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    Aww, that sucke, but you still have us! (-:

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    ^^
    that's so sweet thanks hun
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Pretty much.

    I developed a very close friendship between myself and 3 girls at work. I saw them both inside and outside of work (except one who lives far away) and at work they were my rock. Pretty much because we supported each other. Helped eachother get dances, deal with assholes and just had a fun time together. I actually looked forward to work to see these girls coz they made time there a lot more bearable.

    well now two of them have left because they both got pregnant. So now it's just me and one of the girls left.

    Both myself and the other girl who is left cried when we found out. I know it sounds childish but it can be such a hard job to deal with at times and we really depended on eachother.

    Im feeling a bit down about it and i know i will really miss my friends. I will see speak to them of course and one of them i will always still see outside of work but it wont be the same. i wont get to see her twice a week and wont have as much in common because we wont have work to laugh and bitch about.

    I hate change!!

    I guess ill be like how i was when i started at this club, just plot along by myself. I will still have one great friend there but she is not working this sat.

    Have any of you experienced similar situations?
    Oh yeah, I am like that with a few girls now, mainly 3 of them.

    One is leaving in Nov, and I will be moving in March (hopefully not too far away though!)

    I hate the nights when I work when none of them are there, and I feel like I am by myself.
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