Results 1 to 7 of 7

Thread: painful sex

  1. #1
    Veteran Member heavenlyheidi's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Posts
    221
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts

    Default painful sex

    I have worn out the Google on this subject and now its time to ask the LADIES..

    I have never had this problem before. I think it might be related to my birth control pill but im not sure.

    When my current bf and i first started sleeping together, it never hurt and it was awesome. I went on the pill. After a month or so, sex HURT. I was wondering if it was because you can get dry on the pill, but it felt like it hurt in the inside...not on the outside. Could that still be dryness? It feels like he is hitting something. AT times it has hurt so badly we had to stop, I cant stand it.

    I thought it could be a yeast infection (itchy, white discharge) since i had some symptoms so i treated that and i tend to get those from the pill. I am clean for any std's...what gives???

    Has this happened to anyone before?

  2. #2
    God/dess Taylorlila's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2007
    Location
    Somewhere cold
    Posts
    2,175
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 33 Times in 17 Posts

    Default Re: painful sex

    I have the same proble, but I'm now off the pill! It's not like a "its sore or dry" thing, its like, if he goes to deep (which was never ever too deep) it hurts! Is that kinda what you mean?


    Quote Originally Posted by RoseWhite View Post
    Boner Man, Boner Man,
    Here comes Sweatpant Boner Man,
    Getting some love the only way he can -
    Boner Man.

  3. #3
    zxcire
    Guest

    Default Re: painful sex

    Is it more painful in certain positions? He might be hitting your cervix which can hurt very badly. I've had to stop in the middle of the action and move myself and my husband around to find a more suitable position so we can continue.

  4. #4
    Veteran Member heavenlyheidi's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Posts
    221
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 9 Times in 9 Posts

    Default Re: painful sex

    it def hurts inside...i was wondering if it was my cervix but it seems to happen not as deep. Certain positions do hurt more...surprisingly missionary hurts more than doggy! ITs never really happened before the past few months. Im wondering if it is dryness or yeast because if we have sex on my period it doesnt hurt, and it tends to be more midcycle=end.

    never happened in my life...its getting frustrating.

  5. #5
    God/dess greenidlady1's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2005
    Location
    North Carolina
    Posts
    4,183
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 14 Times in 12 Posts

    Default Re: painful sex

    Yeah, you typically aren't as wet or horny when you're on the pill since you don't ovulate. I'd try some lube and a little extra foreplay. He's probably hitting your cervix. When a woman gets aroused her vagina expands and lengthens. You probably just aren't aroused enough.

  6. #6
    God/dess Chrissy68's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Over the hills and far away
    Posts
    4,902
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 368 Times in 56 Posts

    Default Re: painful sex

    Personally, i'd contact my OBGYN. The last time sex hurt for me, I had a cervical polyp.
    Sex actually hurts for me a LOT but i have 2 conditions called Interstitial Cystitis and Vulvodynia. If it's IC, it hurts on the inside, because he's hitting my bladder. If it's Vulvodynia, it hurts right around the entrance and this particular condition causes me not to be as wet i dont think so we have to do a lot of foreplay whenever i have sex.

    Love it!

  7. #7
    Veteran Member naughty_princess's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Posts
    497
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 30 Times in 22 Posts

    Default Re: painful sex

    missionary hurts like a mother for me unless im feeling extremely into it. make sure there is a lot of foreplay and start with you on top. ive been on yasmin for a few years, i would like to go off it but theres not really a better option that i see, and my boyfriend whines like a baby at the word condom

Similar Threads

  1. How PAINFUL is BA ?
    By exotic0690 in forum Body Business
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 12-02-2011, 10:44 AM
  2. How painful is a BA?
    By Elusive21 in forum Body Business
    Replies: 48
    Last Post: 05-29-2008, 03:57 PM
  3. Painful Sex
    By amadeus_x in forum Body Business
    Replies: 30
    Last Post: 03-19-2006, 08:04 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •