hey peoples
question for you all
so, i met this girl about 8 months ago, and we chatted here and there, and have started seeing eachother for a little over a month now.
we are both heads over heals for eachother, and all that good stuff
now, the majority of her friends are male (which is fine), and they are mostly the kind of guys that normal women don't get attracted to. meaning theyre kind of the poser type, i drive my mom and dads benz to look cool kind of guys.
now, some of MY friends know her, and they all have said nothing but good things about her... and they say you can judge a person by their friends.. well this is not the case, because she is a really awesome person, and very intellectual, and not shallow at all, yet her friends are completely useless as human beings.
we had a conversation one night, and she agreed that, if given the opportunities, her male "friends" would hit on her, and some have.. and she obviously turned them down.
my question to you all is, how can a woman be so oblivious to the fact that these "friends" are only there, hoping for an opportunity to get with her. she hasnt really hung out with her friends much this month that we've been together, because we spend all our available time together, except one instance that she hung out with these two idiots, one of which is her best male buddy..
like i said, i trust her, and she always invites me to go out with them, but i have been declining because i know who these people are, we have nothing in common, and i dont want to be around someone who has (in my strong opinion) alterior motives for my gf.
is there any advice you can give me as far as handling this ? and kind of getting her to see reality ? or will everything works its way out over time ?
edit: im not a "controlling" person when it comes to relationships, and im not interested in changing a person, but i want both aprties to kind of adapt and learn from eachother, and also have a certain level of respect and consideration of eachothers feelings.
im a little older than her, and i have several female friends, yet i respect her enough to not hang out with them, because i know for a fact that they only "hang out" with me for hooking up purposes. with the exception of maybe one girl..



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