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    Default Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    Well, I hid my dancing for almost 2 years. I thought i was doing very good at it! Apperently the owners of the bar My family thought I worked at, are best friends with my grandmother from her church! My grandmother didnt know they owned the bar, when she found out she asked them about me. Of course they said they never heard of me, and they dont pay girls an hour what I said I was making there. My grandma called me last night freaked out! I managed to cover my ass . Well today i wake up to these 2 guys and my grandma at my door and her going see! see! this is her! she DOES work for you! fuck.



    So, I finally broke down and said I worked at a different more sleazy bar in the area and didnt want her to know. She fell for it and said I shouldent have lied, etc. She was sad that I lied to her. I guess last night she called my mother about it. My mom comes over and banged my freaking door down asking me if Im stripping cause she doesnt believe the BS and being a stripper makes sense of all the lies I have told trying to cover this bar story up!!


    I ended up lieing yet again saying im a shot girl at a stripclub and -again- didnt want anyone to know Its so obvious my mom knows. lol there was even a friends pole in my living room and clear shoes thrown on the floor Im just mad because I wanted this to be all to myself, didnt want my fam in it ya know? I feel like im totally found out now(not that its a bad thing, just wanted this to be private from family), and my grandma thinks im a huge liar now. She even said "you are no longer my favorite grandchild!"


    Ok im done...

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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    OK emotional manipulation aside, I think it's potentially a good thing. You can feel freer without the weight of guilt and shame and fear on ya'. That's worthwhil, right?
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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    If your mom is anything like my mom she knew long before today. My mom has a real good sense of what i am up to even if noone says a thing.

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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    I am so sorry that happened. Honestly its ur right to tell ur family only if you want to. If you mom asks about the pole tell her you take pole fitness at a studio and they ask you to bring heels for practicing.

    But i also agree with Optimist, that it can be a good thing. Just let the shock wear off.




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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 View Post
    If your mom is anything like my mom she knew long before today. My mom has a real good sense of what i am up to even if noone says a thing.
    i agree with this. not that that helps.. but parents know when youre lying. mine sure did. she just let it go for a while. and i think its totally better now that they know. no more sneaking around, and its awkward but funny. i was talking about halloween costumes & accidentally said i needed one for work, so my brother & his gf & my mom sat there thinking of ideas. even though i told them it was weird. its funny now almost.

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    I know she knows, I just wanted this to be my private thing My family actually took it better then I thought they would. I keep getting calls from my cousins now asking me to borrow money! My mom says she is sending me to Italy(where shes from), what? Like there arent strippers in Italy lol!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss marina View Post
    My mom says she is sending me to Italy(where shes from), what? Like there arent strippers in Italy lol!!
    Hmm maybe take her up on that, it could be a nice trip! Hope everything settles down for you soon!

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    I sort of wish I'd get caught. I'm not going to tell my family because it would worry them sick, but I'm sick of the lies. It would be nice to clear the air. I think in the long run you'll be better off for this.

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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    This is the same mom who kicked you out of the house, kept you cat hostage, laughed at you for trying to get him, and threatened to call the cops on your boyfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by krchab99 View Post
    If your mom is anything like my mom she knew long before today. My mom has a real good sense of what i am up to even if noone says a thing.
    Same here. My mom is crazy & lazy, but hyper-aware. And a total bitch! She called me a whore when I jokingly said I could pull hundreds of dollars out of my ass. So she's not seeing any of that, or me.

    I advise you to sock away some major savings so you never, ever have to ask your family for help, and meet a few non-judgemental people you can count on...

    /end rant

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    Arrg I hadn't even read this thread and I had a nightmare last night which almost exactly paralleled this. I hate deception. Over the past year I've started to be more open with my mom about my sex life (The Hubby and I are polyamorous) but she has not shown that she's willing to accept our choices as valid enough for me to trust her with this knowledge. Sighhhhh.


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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    oh what a horror story! Im sorry marina *crosses fingers for self*

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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    Wow.....that sucks. I'm getting so nervous hearing all these "Family found out" stories on here lately.......ugh makes me nervous. I must dream about getting caught literally every night.

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    Default Re: Finally got busted =(! -rant-

    This is the same mom who kicked you out of the house, kept you cat hostage, laughed at you for trying to get him, and threatened to call the cops on your boyfriend?
    Yep, thats the one! lol. The scary thing is I find myself doing things she does more & more as I get older
    It does suck to be "found out" But i do feel better now. Even if half of my family thinks im a whore.

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