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    Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    About 2 years ago, I was working at a super club and making a lot of money.

    UNTIL...

    One night, a waitress stole from me (less than $100)... I wasn't thinking clearly back then, and on that night particular, so I responded by shoving her down a set of stairs (this sounds so crazy now I can't even believe I did that!!).

    She didn't fall or get too hurt, but she was terrified of me so she ran to the manager and he told me to 'go home'. He never said 'you are fired' or 'dont come back'.

    All he said is 'if this is not over (my grudge against her), then go home'.

    So I left and never had the balls to go back.

    But now my bank account is really hurting and I need to get back into that club.

    Do you think 2 years makes it ancient history?

    How do I go back in to ask for my job? I'm thinking during the dayshift so there's not a lot of people to see me beg...



    I know the waitress still works there.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    shit, i'd go back. but then, i've gone back to clubs after causing some really big scenes. never pushing somebody down the stairs though hahaha it doesnt hurt to try. but i'd be careful. if shes been there that long she could fuck with your money, or steal again, or something, you know? and they'd believe her over you.

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    Well I am worried about that ^^

    Also because her best friend is the bartender, they could fuck me up with something in my drink.

    ...So I would have to be on water only.

    But it is the only club where I have the chance of making $1000+ per night, and I used to do that on a regular basis, and it hasn't happened since I left that place.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    well, thats illegal. you really think they'd do something like that. actually, i take that back. girls are dumb bitches. but if they DID do soemthing like that, its illegal and you could press charges.

    maybe find another club. i wouldnt like worrying that something might happen just to make more money.

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    Maybe I will try working from 4-8 pm so I can leave before the night-shift bitches come.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Unfornuately, people tend to remember the bad things associated with a person over the good things. They probably haven't forgot what happened. I suppose you could try to go back, the worse thing they could do is say no

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    2 years? Aaaaaancient history. I'm pretty sure that the manager is hazy on the details after all this time. He probably deals with more drama every night.

    Go in superconfident and if he brings up that "incedent" just be like "hah, that chick blew things way out of proportion, I completely forgot about it till you just mentioned it..."
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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    oh yeah absolutely! i used to worry about being thought of as crazy after i would get in a fight with a manager or something but other girls always told me it was just another day. worse things happen. its a strip club, nothing is ever *that* bad.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Try it!! The worst he can say is NO but if you didn't try it's like telling yourself NO.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    Try it!! The worst he can say is NO but if you didn't try it's like telling yourself NO.

    Truer words were never typed...
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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    I went back to a specific club that I had dramas within after a few years without any dramas. The only reason I left this time around was because I detested how they operated and was sick of how much it was affecting me psychologically to work there. I had enough and thankfully a new club opened so I don't have to go back.

    Go back. Act like nothing ever happened. It's been two years so even that specific girl might have forgotten what happened or work a shift that doesn't involve you working with her.


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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair View Post

    Do you think 2 years makes it ancient history?
    If you were making great money, the club was making great money off of you!

    It's 50/50 that they forgot about it after two nights, and it's certain that they forgot after two weeks.

    After Two Years, go back and make money for yourself, (and them).

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    I really want to go back but I am really embarassed.

    I know when I go everything will be ok and I will kick myself for waiting so long.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Listen there is always someone that is going to do something worse/crazier then you right after you so it will soon be yesterdays gossip, which it has to be by now. Just suck it up and think about the money.

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Two years is definitely ancient history. If the waitress even still works there, just apologize to her. Chalk it up to being young and immature; she'll probably agree that she stole from you because she was young and immature. You both made bad decisions that night. I'm sure you'll get your job back.


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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    yea go back. the manager probably won't remember much, but i'm sure the waitiress would. if they even bring it up, put up a little smile and say, "you know thats in the past... i can't believe how crazy i can be. i can t even believe i snapped and pushed you down the stairs. i didn't mean to." just laugh over it with her, that way you 2 start over on a clean slate. trying to avoid her, knowing that she works there probably won't help, because everytime you see her, it would be a constant reminder. even if you work day shifts, what if she starts working day shift? you'd have to put up with her eventually.
    so just laugh over it with her and the manager if they bring it up, and they'll move on. Its all good!

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Two years is not only ancient history, it's long enough for the dynamics of the club to go down and thus make you less money than it did previously, so be careful.


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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    242, with all you're going through lately, this is a walk in the park.

    I'm gonna go with my girls Optimist and Sophia (I miss you girls!) and say go for it.

    It's almost like clubs have Alzheimer's. They never seem to remember the things we do.

    Now make your money!

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    I miss you too Dylan!!!!

    As for you 242... I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for ya!
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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    Def. go back! Like the other Ladies said, drama happens every night @ clubs. Noone probably remembers. Go back and feel out the atmosphere!

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    go back, but DO apologise to the waitress, IF SHE REMEMBERS YOU.

    then at least you tried to have a good work enviornment

    but seriously, i'd have pushed a thieving bitch down the stairs too, if my club had stairs. at my club, they just get the managers to turn the lights off in the dressing room and the thief (or extras girl) gets beaten pretty badly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair View Post
    About 2 years ago, I was working at a super club and making a lot of money.

    UNTIL...

    One night, a waitress stole from me (less than $100)... I wasn't thinking clearly back then, and on that night particular, so I responded by shoving her down a set of stairs (this sounds so crazy now I can't even believe I did that!!).

    She didn't fall or get too hurt, but she was terrified of me so she ran to the manager and he told me to 'go home'. He never said 'you are fired' or 'dont come back'.

    All he said is 'if this is not over (my grudge against her), then go home'.

    So I left and never had the balls to go back.

    But now my bank account is really hurting and I need to get back into that club.

    Do you think 2 years makes it ancient history?

    How do I go back in to ask for my job? I'm thinking during the dayshift so there's not a lot of people to see me beg...



    I know the waitress still works there.
    You should be fine, lol!

    I have been hired back at a club before (ages ago before my current home club) that I got fired from for getting into a fight with a drugged out cunt on the main stage. She stole money, I called her out about it, she got shitty when I was on stage and I hit her with a guy's beer.

    It has been long enough, I think you should be ok.
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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    I'd definitely go back, and as a previous poster said, apologise to the waitress about pushing her down the stairs. It's about money...and that previous bullshit (less than $100) is not worth the thousands you cold make if you get your job back.

    In fact...I'd even go as far as making nicey-nice with the waitress while you make your apology because it could pay off big time. She's been at the club these last 2 years and knows the score on regulars, management, who has the big bucks, etc. Make her into an ally. It may not work out if she wants to hold a grudge, but it could pay off for you if she's open to making up. Think of it as being paid thousands to make up with her

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    Default Re: Had a fight with waitress/ got fired/ now I want my job back...

    a girl at my old club busted another chick's head open with one of those big glass candle things and she came back after jsut a couple of MONTHS. (i guess she was only gone because she had some jail time to do...unrelated....go figure) and i know she is not embarrassed at all. she is making money.

    the girl whose head was split open i know for a fact will never come back, because the club didn't really handle it right w/her....

    you didn't even hurt that waitress. this girl almost killed somebody (one of their best-looking and most talented dancers in fact) and its like it never happened.

    that was one of the scariest nights i ever worked btw... happened in the dressing room about 2 feet away from me. nothing like hearing some big ass glass thing bust and seeing blood pouring out of your friends head. and then the owner is all "simma down, simma down, you be a-ight, it just a lil cut" and my friend is like "IS IT BAD? I CAN FEEL IT...IS IT BAD?" and im all "no..its not .... that .... bad ...." (lying) and have to stop someone from putting PAPER TOWELS on it...im like omfg you dont have a real first aid kit?? get the fuck out of here with those paper towels! YOU DONT PUT PAPER TOWELS ON SOMEBODYS WIDE OPEN GUSING HEAD WOUND FOR FUCKS SAKE

    yeah nothin like workin in a strip club where this is like an every day thing...
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    First, I am not going to say sorry to that waitress. IMO that would be a total bitch move, and it would make her think she can do it again.

    I would say sorry to the manager because he's a nice guy and stuff.

    But I will be polite and ignore / avoid the waitress as much as possible. I will try to go in tonight.

    Especially with my computer getting stolen, I need to see if my money is better at this club before I go broke.

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